Showing posts with label Anniversary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Anniversary. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

A Day To Remember

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   I remember sitting in my living room flipping through the channels trying to find something good to watch. It was around 10 or so at night and my family and I were house-bound because of Typhoon Nina, I was 12. We only had a few channels since we lived overseas, we didn't have the luxury of an endless amount of entertainment like Stateside homes. I was on my second round of channel surfing when I passed what I thought was a movie of two buildings with one of them on fire, I skipped over it. That's when my Papi stepped in and told me to switch it back. I remember being so annoyed because I didn't want to watch this boring movie. That feeling lasted about a second. As soon as I switched  back I realized, "this isn't a movie, this is the news." I remember thinking what a horrible accident this was, and what could have happened to cause this. That is when the second plane hit. I saw it coming from the corner of the screen. It was just a little harmless dot at first, a blip on the radar. Then boom everything changed. I was stunned, I remember not being able to think. I was having far too many emotions for a twelve year old to handle. After the initial shock of the second attack I knew this wasn't an accident. The rest of the evening was a blur. I know I watched the news unfold and my parents making numerous calls to,well honestly I don't know who, but my Papi was a Marine and my Mom worked for the Marine Corps, so I believe they were busy figuring out what was going to happen next.

   The days that followed were slow and gloomy. The base I lived on shut down. No one was allowed outside of their home unless absolutely necessary, cops patrolled our streets, and school was closed. We lived in fear. What was going to happen next? Were we safe? Are we going to be attacked?We weren't attacked, but life didn't go back to normal. Everyday I heard about more deaths, more injuries, and more sadness. But there were also miracle stories of people who made it out, of people who were still alive and doing everything to help. Stories of heroes circulated and the American response was overwhelming. We were all united. I wish that our country was still as united as we were in the months that followed the attacks, but sadly we are not. Everyone is divided in their own views and at each others throats for having their own opinion. It is a bit sad, but I am thankful that everyone still takes a moment to remember what happened 11 years ago and to pray for all the lives lost. At least we still have that.

   The attacks on our country had numerous effects on my life but there is one wheel that was set in motion that day that I will always be grateful for. On the other side of the world, a country boy from Oklahoma watched the attacks and was inspired. It was then he decided he could not just sit around and watch as terrorist attacked our Homeland. At 11 years old he decided he would become a Marine. I met that boy 8 years, one week and one day later. He changed my life. When he told me why he decided to join the Marines I fell in love with his passion. I had never seen someone talk so passionately about why they decided to become a Marine, it was inspiring. He is a great Marine, a great husband, and I know he is going to be a wonderful father. 
 
"Thousands of lives were suddenly ended by evil, despicable acts of terror. The pictures of airplanes flying into buildings, fires burning, huge structures collapsing, have filled us with disbelief, terrible sadness and a quiet, unyielding anger.
--George W. Bush 


"You can be sure that the American spirit will prevail over this tragedy."

--Colin Powell

“Time is passing. Yet, for the United States of America, there will be no forgetting September the 11th. We will remember every rescuer who died in honor. We will remember every family that lives in grief. We will remember the fire and ash, the last phone calls, the funerals of the children. “
--George W. Bush

Thursday, June 28, 2012

1 Year Down, Forever to Go

   You know that moment in a movie when two characters look at each other for the first time and you just know they are meant to be together forever? I thought that is how it would go when I met my husband. Boy was I wrong.  Sure the first time I saw him I thought he was hot but that was it. I didn't feel an urgent need to know him or to go up to him and say hi, thankfully he is the one that came to me and asked me to dance :) If I had known that the cowboy Marine that had just asked me to dance at that moment would be my future husband, the father to my little growing bean, and my best friend I would have tried to remember every moment. I would remember the song, what it was we were laughing and chatting about, how many times we danced, you know the little things. I am thankful that I have a mother that loves taking photos because I do have a picture of our first dance and I am forever grateful for it.
Our first dance

   This was September 2009 and on June 25th 2011 I married him, the most wonderful man I have ever met. 

We sealed our vows with a pinky promise

   On Monday we had our 1 year anniversary. Oh my goodness gracious! I still can't believe how fast this past year has gone by. I feel like we just got married like it was yesterday, but no it has been a year and quite a few things have happened since then:
  • We moved into our first house
  • had our first Thanksgiving and Christmas as grownups 
  • survived our first deployment 
  • and the beginning of our second
  • found out we are expecting our first miracle by the end of this year
  • and probably a few other momentous things that I just can't think of right now
   Unfortunately our anniversary didn't pan out the way I had always pictured it. You know with a nice dinner out, drinking champagne, celebrating with my husband, possibly a bit of dancing. No it didn't happen like that at all. He spent the day at work and the rest of the evening sitting alone in him room playing on his computer. I spent the day hot, sweaty and miserable thinking that nothing could make this day better. As you probably guessed we didn't spend it together. I know, this is what I signed up for when I fell in love with a Marine, but it still sucks. I never really imagined he would get deployed right before our first anniversary. I though there is no way that will happen his deployment will happen afterwards. I was very wrong. But I have a very supportive family and at 8 on Monday evening they changed my day, they made it bearable, and better than I had ever thought an anniversary without my other half could go. 
   We had gone out to my favorite restaurant, Kobe. Had a fantastic dinner and show where they cook the food right in front of you and when I was stuffed and ready to leave out came the waitress with this:

Cheese cake!

   At that exact moment my phone rang and on the other side was Mr.Wonderful. It was perfect. We switched to facetime and my family sang a rendition of Happy Birthday  Anniversary to us. I wanted to cry. It was as perfect as it could have been.
   
   It has been one crazy year. It has been as perfect as it could have been and I would not have changed a single thing. 


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   On the day we got married our cake baker gave us a small  mini cake to enjoy on our first anniversary. When it became apparent that we would not be together I decided we would enjoy our cake on our last day together.  We had three different flavors (red velvet, vanilla and chocolate) for the wedding and our mini cake was chocolate. 









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June 25th 2011
Photographer: Haley West


Napkins, our sign, chairs, bubbles and our Wine Box


Getting ready
Bridesmaids and Groomsmen 

I could not stop crying during the ceremony, I'm glad you can't tell

You may kiss the bride

First dance: Aaron Watson's Country boy and a City Girl

Our Cake :)


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